You probably know that some women find it harder to have an orgasm than men do. As a result, it’s possible that they may not always be able to orgasm when they have sex. Therefore, they are left with a big question. Should they fake their orgasm so that their man is satisfied, or should they be up front about the fact that they are unable to orgasm? If they do this, it is possible that the man may become anxious or self-conscious and believe that he is not good enough in the bedroom for her, even though this is often not the case.
As with most things in life, honesty is the best policy and you should typically apply this to your sex life. However, there is scope for bending the boundaries a bit when it comes to females faking an orgasm. As it can be so difficult and some women find it hard to orgasm ever – even when masturbating on their own – the simple act of faking it can solve many problems. The chances are that they are enjoying the sex anyway, so they aren’t lying as such anyway, and it’s a very easy thing to pull off – in the heat of the moment, the man is unlikely to know whether you are faking it or not.
But then you also have to consider the other side of things. If you knowingly fake your orgasm every time, then you may begin to believe that you are not getting the sexual satisfaction that you should. In this scenario, it is likely that you will become unhappy with your relationships and tensions between the two of you will grow. If things get really heated, you also have the leverage over the man that you have been faking your orgasms – you could use this against him, and this may upset him and bring your relationship to an end.
It is largely up to you. While you should never fake it if it isn’t good enough for you, if you are enjoying yourself but are unable to make it all the way, then faking your orgasm is not such a bad idea. It alleviates a potential problem and you do not have to feel guilty about it, meanwhile your man will get an added boost as he will think that he is very good in the sack – a win-win situation for both of you.